This is the first time I have ever done any kind of an online journal. There are a few things I wish to do in this journal. 1. I want to write about 3 things that made me happy that day. 2. I want to plan a future for myself, I have so many dreams but no motivation. I am hoping having these dreams down on paper will help to get me there. 3. I want to teach myself to control my temper and my mouth when I get upset. I want my relationship with Drew to be as great as I can make it. I think the only thing that will hold me back from doing these things is actually doing it. I want to be better for so many reasons but mostly for her. I never thought she would do this to me but it is amazing. It has taking so much for us to get here but what can I say....you have to work for something good...and she is definately good.
我家的周末论坛
一到周末的傍晚,我们三口坐在沙发上开始侃大山,我抢先提出第一轮侃题,如果中国从地球上消失对当今世界意味着什么?
敦敦:中国是当今世界制造和加工厂,中国没了,世界上就少了很多玩具和小玩意。很多外国公司都在中国有工厂,中国没了,这些大企业也就死定了,搞不好全球将面临经济崩溃。
敦爹:世界丧失了一个古老文明的根基。中国文化没了根据地。人类少了聪明的中国人,很悲哀啊。
敦妈:东方巨人没了,美国和欧洲就没了真正的对手,发展也会放缓。西方单一的文化思维会使世界阴阳失衡。
我的天哪,照我家分析的结果,没了中国,世界经济崩溃,文明衰落,阴阳失调。那将是一幅多么可怕的景象啊!
轮到敦子出题了,论题比老妈有水准,城市化的最终结果是什么?
敦爹:城市化使城市过于拥挤,人们的生活质量会下降。
敦敦:城市化过了头,乡下的农地就没人种,将来人类赖以生存的物质来源就成大问题了。
敦妈:咱家小猫乐肥就是城市化的产物,乡下家具店老板有机会把分店开在了大上海的城隍庙,小猫乐肥的妈跟着家具店主家的老奶奶进了大上海,乐肥妈当年年轻貌美,很快就被来灯红酒绿的大染缸给腐蚀了,风流成性,男友如云,猫崽一窝窝连着生,小猫乐肥是典型的第二代'移猫',一出世就是有上海户口的城市猫,为了生存,住进了城里人家宽敞的楼房,吃的是美国进口的高级饼干,用的也是洋厕所(水晶猫砂),但不幸的是正常的社交生活被剥夺了,还时不时遭洗澡的洋罪,最惨的是婚恋也不自由,到岁数还得受净身的手术之苦。偶尔,乐肥从十八楼的阳台向地上看去,草地上的野猫疯狂地相爱,乐肥快疯了,有生不如死的感觉,真悔呀,好不容易俺娘让俺有机会做了上海猫,没想到我的物质生活上了天堂,精神生活却下了地狱。
换句话来说,在城市化光鲜的生活背后,无数人付出了沉重的精神代价。还是乡下老鼠的那句话实在,"我不羡慕城市老鼠那样充满恐惧的'富裕'生活"。
I have it.. my seven year plan... well if you knew me you would know this is a huge step! I am normally not able to keep my thoughts, dreams or desires going for a minute with out changing to something else. Yes I fly by the seat of my pants. I have decided that I am going to complete my dream. First I will be graduating from college in December of 2009 with two associate degrees( Human Service & Communication), and THree bachelors of Arts in Sociology, Psychology, and HIstory! Why so many degrees you ask? Well do to my screw up as a youngster I have so many credits that it will work to my advance. I am doing it for me and noone else! Course it will look great on my resume:) SOOOOO how does this fall into the seven year plan? I found for my masters that I can combine a Law and a Social Work degree! OKay so I am a little masochistic.. who isn't? I have done some crazy things in my life, and I must say this will be the hardest, accomplishment but the end pay off will be the greatest! Who knows once I graduate I might just follow my fav band around!:)